If a man is having an issue with sex, their partner may be the only one who knows it. We tend to adore an image that is endlessly virile, yet persistently silent. Meanwhile, studies have shown that as many as 50 percent of men in the United States experience erectile dysfunction (ED). And this is the most common stumbling block to a healthy sex life.
Angelo Baccala, MD, Deputy Physician in Chief, Innovation and Program Development, Lehigh Valley Institute for Surgical Excellence, says that men often treat ED as a side note. “Men are embarrassed to talk about it, and it comes out when we’re talking about something else,” he says. But he adds that secrecy can be risky. “Sometimes, men have stopped having sex because of ED and think it doesn’t matter. But it does. It could indicate an underlying medical problem.”